Swinging 101: Get into the Swing of Things

Swinging 101 - Tips for Swinging Lifestyle Success in St. Louis

Swinging 101: Getting into the Swing of things is our tips for getting started in the swinging lifestyle of St. Louis. Swinging is a fun and adventurous thing to become involved in. To become a swinging couple, first, you MUST have a mutual understanding and desire to become swingers. Treat your partner with the utmost respect and dignity while holding yourself to high integrity standards. This takes a lot of trust and commitment. Indulging yourself in sexual relationships outside of your partnership or without your partner knowing is cheating and is not swinging. Arm yourself with the knowledge of art itself before you jump right in. Do everything you can to make your partner comfortable and express and reservations you may have with your mutual decision to become a swinging couple.

Swinging 101: Get Your Partner on Board

While trying to convince your partner to become a sexy swinging couple, keep in mind that it isn’t for everyone and they may have a few questions and concerns about it. Bring up the topic slowly and be as sensitive as possible about it. We, as human beings, tend to respond well to sensitivity and understanding. This means that if your partner agrees to try it out and then doesn’t like it, being calm and patient, they may find themselves fantasizing over time and decide to give it another go.

Be sure to reassure them often that you are in a committed relationship and your loyalty lies with them. You should keep your line of communication open at all times and be able to freely voice what is on your mind without fear of repercussion. Overall, be confident and have fun!

Swinging 101 Tip: Start With a Threesome

Starting off on the safe side, choose a mutual third party to join in on the sexy fun. Get a little bit of liquid courage and throw a new sexy third wheel in the mix and make her (or him!) the center of attention! This will make them feel wanted and come back for more. Make sure to also show affection to your partner, remember, this takes a lot for them!

Moving on steadily to the foursomes and group orgies, after you’re ready to go all-in, throw out all reservations and move forward on trust and passion. The more the merrier and trust me, the is no merrier place on earth and a bed full of sexy people emitting hormones and oozing sexual pleasure. Bring on the kinky sex play and girls from hell to breakfast! We’re ready and so are you! Think of the places you can go! We’ll help you find it and maybe even go along for the ride! 😉


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